12 characters speak about treason favorite

Although adultery, as well as to tango, needs two people and women, frankly, are not innocent lambs who were lured to cleverly nets, often it is men who tend to polygamy.

A matter of trust - one of the most important in the relationship. At the moment when you realize that you change, you feel as if a person suddenly flew basketball ball. It is very painful. But suddenly you're wrong? And it is actually quite different? How can I check?
There are some obvious signs that he had started an affair. And, if clearly and dispassionately analyze the behavior of his favorite and only then discover they will be fairly simple. So:

1. He was cautious, nervous, if your hand gets his mobile phone;

2. He was delayed at work, but it can not and will not clearly explain what exactly he was there so late deals;

3. He suddenly began to show increased interest in the new perfume and scents;

4. He abruptly began to worry about how it looks. Spend more time at the mirror, a genuine interest in clothes, is slipped up in the gym - all in order to get a better look;

5. It controls the order in the car. If a family has children - removes the first opportunity a child seat and all traces of the baby in the cabin;

6. He "forgets" to wear a wedding ring;

7. He wondered about the strange calls in the apartment. When you come up - in the tube could only hear short beeps;

8. He becomes unusually solicitous (can give flowers and gifts - and just like that, without apparent reason). In general, there is a sign of guilt;

9. He constantly receives orders from superiors to go somewhere, including a trip to another city;

10. His clothes from time to time women's perfume smells. And this is not your perfume;

11. His body appeared suspicious traces, and he gives the country an explanation about their origin. And you just know that this is not your handiwork;

12. He behaves differently in bed. Options may be several: a strong sexual appetite increased, or, conversely, went down to nothing, or it is hard to test new technology offers.

From time to time our sense of confidence is being tested, but to determine whether or not you change, it is very difficult. Say what you like, but judging from the statistics, more than half of all men at least once, but change. However, this circumstance suggests that there are millions of men who have never changed and did not want to do this in the future.

But what if you are clear indications that from you have something to hide, and suggest themselves to the eye? One characteristic of our entire list, of course, enough to start to worry. However, if the man's behavior corresponds to 5 or 6 of them ... Well, time to reflect and find out eventually that hide from you! The main thing - do not ignore this problem and hope that all will end by itself. At stake - your future and credibility of the man who was near.


Psychologists believe that men are changing, because:

A) looking for a new experience in sex
B) want more sex
B) looking for diversity in sex

In women, the list of reasons for the betrayal of several diverse, but that does not mean that cheating men is simple and easy to understand. Studies have shown that in the first place the new link on the side of the mean for men to "new" sex. But often this is a way to be "more flexible" in relations with a steady partner, and an attempt to re-experience the feeling of youth, and sometimes an escape from boring unsuccessful marriage.

For some men, the novels on the side - an opportunity to distance himself from his permanent partner, a certain way to avoid "excessive" proximity. Not sinking too deeply into the feelings and avoiding a full-fledged emotional closeness, they believe that retain their freedom. "Dependence" scares them. This type of men is also very avoids conflict.

There are men who they go to the winds, becoming older. Fear of age - that's what makes them change. They understand that they will never become young and fresh and an affair with someone "new and young" gives them a sense of his own youth. Though not for long.

Biologists believe that the blame ancient instincts. But, judging by the fact that more women are also changing, we can assume that before they stopped only public opinion.

Infidelity are different. This may be just one night, and may last for years. But they are destructive to the marriage. Although treason itself does not mean that everything has come to an end and it's time to put the point in relations, the causes of this event often need to look for it in the family. Many women believe that their rival has to be younger, more attractive and better than they. But not always it turns out to be true. If an existing alliance of roads you - draw conclusions and try to save him.